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Every girl I date I try to get them to
fall in love with me, even if I am not
attracted to them. I say I do it
because I want them to be happy, when
I know in a couple of weeks I'll just stop calling.
I don't want to hurt them but I'm afraid I am.
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1) 10/9/09 - I do the same thing and I really need to stop as well. It It isn't fair to them, and I have little idea why I do it in the first place.
2) 10/9/09 - You both do it because your self esteems are so fragile and low that you need the infactuation of others to feel better about yourselves. In their hurt you see the degree to which you are something to be desired; in dropping them you insulate yourself from the ego rollercoster that is a real relationship where you actually have to be vulnerable.
3) 10/9/09 - You two are probably gay... thats why 1 you don't stay with a girl, and 2 you care that your are hurting their feelings. News flash girls have it easy in the dating game, they will do it to you, so why not do it right back.
4) 12/2/09 - if I ever met you I'd probably kick you in the nuts
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