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i screwed up big time and cheated on my boyfriend. the other guy walked in and confronted us. it was absolutely horrible. i know i am a horrible person for cheating, and all i want is this to be behind me, but i know i deserve to suffer after hurting someone so important to me. i wish i could feel all of his pain, instead of him hurting for my mistake.

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HOW DO I KNOW?

How do I know if a guy is attracted to me? I never can tell, and think that I typically miss the signs at least that is what ppl tell me

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I'm the same way with girls. If you think theres a chance they're into you, they probably are. Most guys like me wait for girls to make the first move. You've got nothing to lose though, just ask or start to get a little more flirty and see how they respo ... (more)

Welcome to the club

If a guy wants you, he'll let you know.

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Gratitude

When I see one of our soldiers, I wonder what he has seen and the stories he could tell. But mostly I am filled with awe.

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Me too. Best secret ever!

Me too

Soldiers are not heroes

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I have a huuuuuugggee crush on one of the parking attendants.

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do you mean event staff or parking garage people? Boy or Girl? I have to know!

I have a crush on one of the guys that works at the physics library!

I definitely have a crush on a cute guy working at the Euclid Auto park....

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I'm getting attached

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this is why i hate random hookups.

uh oh caaaatching feelings!

I wish I had the capacity to kill myself

I am bulimic
Garbage from sexual assault
Damaged
Depressed
Anxious

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YOU are not garbage. The person who did this to you is garbage and sadly as long as you carry around these feelings of disgust and shame for yourself, the person who assaulted you will continue to effect you negativly. You've got to do the work and move f ... (more)

You have the capacity to live your live in a wonderful way if you stop dwelling on the past

i've struggled with stuff all my life, but they make you stronger, if you use what sucks in life and turn it into something to learn from you will love life you're lucky to be here, and there is a reason you have made it through all of this...just look ... (more)

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I am doing wrong?

Every girl I date I try to get them to
fall in love with me, even if I am not
attracted to them. I say I do it
because I want them to be happy, when
I know in a couple of weeks I'll just stop calling.
I don't want to hurt them but I'm afraid I am.

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I do the same thing and I really need to stop as well. It It isn't fair to them, and I have little idea why I do it in the first place.

You both do it because your self esteems are so fragile and low that you need the infactuation of others to feel better about yourselves. In their hurt you see the degree to which you are something to be desired; in dropping them you insulate yourself fro ... (more)

You two are probably gay... thats why 1 you don't stay with a girl, and 2 you care that your are hurting their feelings. News flash girls have it easy in the dating game, they will do it to you, so why not do it right back.

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